Yield requirements of the parents of a child is free to meet her request, the long run, the children would develop into “something to me,” this habit, a behavior requires more and more things.
How to let the child develop a “give me something,” this habit? If the child has the habit, how to change? Here is expert advice.
Teach children not to indulge in television and toys.
If you kids do meaningful activities, the child will not haunt you all day trouble. Today’s parents are not told the boy to almost do anything. Parents should arrange a schedule, called the children to do chores, so to prevent their children develop “Give me something,” this habit. Even if a child four years old, he can help clean up breakfast dishes, feed the cat, to the flowers and watering and so on. Old child to bed, and finishing work in the garden bathroom.
Each to the store to buy something, do not always give your child to buy goodies. This is often due to parental guilt caused during the day, most of the time parents have to work, not the child around, so they want compensation point the child.
Often give their children a gift that might make you feel kind of generous feeling, but gradually the child will feel he is entitled to enjoy such treatment, and has been asked of.
From the outset it clear to the child, to buy him things is the result of careful consideration of a decision. If you do not want to buy your child, do not make excuses, the child said, “We are too poor,” the kind of remark, reminded them that happiness is not with many things. Emphasis on what, something is waste, not worth buying. Provides some boundaries, and ultimately the child views the transition to a consumer, then a disciplined saving people.
If you think the child’s request is worth it, give him a chance, their money, their own buy this thing. You can say that this kind of thing, which can stimulate children “self-reliant,” the motivation and drive to do things.
If you refuse the child’s request, the simple reason that you are clear. Day in the super market, a 4-year-old son to his father explained. Buy a bag of potato chips “is not a good choice, because little nutritional value, which contains fat and salt, harmful to health.” In a store, a mother tells her daughter, she could not buy a pack of flat hairpin, because “many hairpin hair clip not live.”
This explanation for the adults, sounds of civilization, but a child, it sounds far-fetched. Best to issue a firm “no”, then say you think the simple explanation: “bad for you.”
Once you say no, we must adhere to in the end. You “Give me something,” This response is to teach children some important information: “What things can get, and what can not be.” Let a child know: crying hard to endure, not achieve their purpose.
“If necessary, leave the store,” says family psychologist advised, “Sometimes, even if the trouble, you have to prove it.”