A) Let the child learn to maintain a happy mood
Parents must understand that the child will prefer happy to learn, learn better and more vigorously, so parents should pay attention to teach children to learn:
1. Do not rush
Parents should be aware of the child’s own learning ability, and children learn to design a feasible goal, should not be rushed and children due to pressure.
2. To maintain their happy mood
Parents feel a direct impact on children’s learning, emotional, therefore, help children learn, parents must be happy, make the child feel that emotional learning itself is a pleasant thing.
3. Help children solve problems together
Ability of the parents if that child is less than the time, and finding ways to help children solve the problem, otherwise it would have to learn the child a sense of fear.
(B) the game of language with children requested
Many parents do not pay attention to the way children request, that as long as children understand the meaning of adults on the line. In fact, parents of children with games or speak the language of music is very encouraging role.
Once, I went to a friend’s house guest, see his children stuff is strong. At this time, the mother’s attitude with a smile, next to the children sing the melody with the songs: “well-behaved children to piano, uncle, aunt Goodbye!” And then gently pulled the child’s hand. Really happy to put down the child’s toy, a greeting to the guests, to the room with her mother. The mother language with the game successfully arouse the children’s interest in learning.
Conversely, if the mother scolding tone with the child said: “The piano’s time to you, to get to the room to go,” even if the child is put down the toys, to the piano with her mother, but also must learn well! C) The right to child care and to encourage
Parents should provide children with a his own environment, and timely care, encourage the child, so that children develop self-conscious attitude.
I have a student Weiqiang. The small size of his family lived, my father placed in his bed a small table in the upper left corner of the table a lamp installed. Every night, family dinner, they will each do their thing: my father sat on the sofa quietly read a newspaper; mother gently to do housework; Weiqiang also will automatically come to his desk , sitting in a chair to do homework.
The right time, in front of Mom and Dad would go to Wai Keung, said to him: “I know you will definitely do the homework you Zhenguai, parents do not worry.” Silent in the parents’ encouragement and support, Wei develop a strong automatic learning attitude.
(D) to help children build self-confidence
The child’s parents to point out the advantages, let him know their potential, their full confidence.
I know a very successful person, he was a boy because of school early, their performance is unsatisfactory, so it is inferior. Once he and the children play at home, shot the ball than the other kids has lots of looks. His father said to him: “Son, you’re OK! You are a promising child. You are the youngest class, if you like night school for a year, but we work together to solve the problem, you will catch up with others. “After that time, he restored the confidence of their own, knowing that they have the potential to begin to study, and quickly become a leader. V) scores rather than with efforts to assess children
Parents should not place undue emphasis on the child’s homework, achievements, and look at the child’s overall performance to be praised. If the child diligence, good results are not given, parents should understand that, do not let him have too much pressure