Son this year on the large class, sub-tall, more sensible, more intelligent, cute, cute kids, but this, actually lied to me had a surprise.
What happened was this: children in large classes required writing exercises, the children are with their rubber, the son came back from kindergarten, pencil box actually has six rubber, I asked him where’s the rubber, he said: “The kids get to.” He lied. I am a bit quiet and did not blame him, but said in earnest: “I know you are afraid of me unhappy, so I do not want to tell the truth you are to take other children’s rubber, you like these beautiful rubber right? You can not for himself, other children did the rubber will be very sad? ”
Later, I looked up some information about early childhood, children lie for many reasons. Son of such cases which, they fear their parents blame and punishment, say some small lie. Because they know their father and mother upset cause mischief, so the spread of a lie.
Your honesty and integrity of the long-winded, for children, but fallen on deaf ears; you do not make the punishment he knew of the problem. Instead, he only knew he was naughty, but he certainly will not want to let you know these naughty thing. Also, explain to the child what he wants does not mean it belongs to him. If your child’s favorite toy to get at the mall said his own, then you have clearly told him: “I know you very very much want to have this toy, but it does not really belong to you, it belongs to the mall . “Slowly, the child will learn to distinguish between fact and fantasy. But if you lie too small for the child care, it will more or less killed the child’s imagination. Also, parents give their children the best talk about “crying wolf” story, and let the children understand why people honest is very important.
Many parents like me, their children have a wrong perception – that their children have grown up, sensible, and is no longer a little baby, so children should understand what he says is true or a lie. It is not true! In fact, lying is the children growing up in a normal phenomenon. Do not lie easily be equated with the quality of the child, because sometimes a lie is just fantasy, or is the child a little wishful thinking.